Our first discussion is complimentary and will determine what I can offer you. There are no typical clients, so we will discuss your specific situation and decide together what programme is right for you and if we would like to work together.

Individual Coaching

We begin with a two hour session which can be face to face if geographically possible or if not, the telephone is perfect.
There are three 55 minute follow up sessions over the next three weeks on the telephone in the first month.
You probably know that coaching is a process. Many people find that three months is the right amount of time to experience sustainable results. Some people benefit from six months or longer. Everyone is different, so I prefer to review after the first month. At this point I will tailor the rest of your programme to suit your needs.
It is possible to work on your relationship even if you are the only one coming to coaching. I have coached so many people over the years who have used their new understanding of how relationships work to mend their own marriages and long term partnerships.
I have also coached many men and women to heal their hearts and find a new love in their lives when they never imagined they could ever love again.
Whilst people know that marriage works better for children than divorce, we have to accept that sometimes it’s going to happen despite our best efforts. Interestingly though, I’ve found that one of the things that many men especially love about our coaching is that they learn how to be the kind of parent they never could have imagined being when they were married. They may not live with their children all the time, but many men create a different and deeper bond with their kids. Many men have told me that through our coaching they have learned how to create even more respect and appreciation between them and their children than ever before.

Couples Coaching

Once again we begin with a two hour individual session, either face to face or on the telephone. When I am working with a couple initially, I want to be clear about how each of you views the relationship. Each of you has different ‘needs and wants’ in relationship and its useful for you to have clarity about what they are. As a trained counsellor and family mediator as well as a very experienced coach, I combine my skills to offer an even-handed approach that serves each of you. I have no judgments or agendas. I am working with you to see what’s possible for your relationship. I will set you specific homework after this first session to complete before our follow up call.
There is a 60 minute follow up call for each of you. At this call I will make sure you have completed the homework that will precede meeting with me as a couple.

The Facilitated Meeting

We will arrange a 3 hour meeting together. Using the skills and strategies you have already learned, we will coach together to understand what would need to happen in order for you to rebuild your relationship. Our aim is to create a plan going forward that works for both of you. This is not a one-off conversation. In the days and weeks ahead you will be working on your relationship as well as being in it. We may arrange some follow up calls. You will start to notice the positive results you get when you put what you have learned into practise. You may also notice what happens when old habits rear their heads. One of things you’re going to love about the process is how much easier life becomes when you have the intention and desire to make your relationship work.

Your Investment

Divorce Coaching is an investment in you and your relationships now and in the future. Coaching costs far less than dragging yourself through the courts. Divorce Coaching gives you the skills and strategies you’ll need to take control of your emotions. Your lawyer has a specific job to do. Your lawyer needs you to be clear and focused on whats most important to you. As your Divorce Coach I can help you create that clarity, drop the drama and face your lawyer with dignity. The benefit for you is less time, money and wasted energy spent on on unnecessary phone calls, acrimonious letters and face to face visits. However coaching with me is not a discounted, cut price, or special offer investment. Nor is it overpriced. I am a very experienced relationship coach offering exceptionally high quality coaching that gets results. I don’t expect you to take my word for it though. So please do read my testimonials to find out what people who coach with me have to say.

If you are ready to find out how I can help you, the quickest way is to contact me:

By telephone between 9am and 6pm on +44(0)208 416 0121
By email Francine@thedivorcedoctor.co.uk